Archived Guest Book

You have no idea how much your comments have encouraged us during these difficult moments. Yet as helpful as this guest book has been, there are obvious limitations, primarily that each comment can only be contexted by cross-referencing dates to Lana's journal or Dave's occasional musing.

So in order to improve interactivity among this growing little community, our guest book has been officially retired. Going forward, please continue on this journey with us by participating in our interactive blog, which can be found here.

This guest book will remain on the site so we can all look backward for a little while. However, you will no longer be able to post comments in this guest book. Again, please visit our blog to post comments. Please email us to let us know what you think.

#461 | 08/06/2008, 12:25 am, EDT | Dave ©

The new site will include the slide show...once I fix it. It will include lots more pictures and lots more video (in time).

#460 | 08/05/2008, 11:54 pm, EDT | ny grandma

p.s. i hope the new updates for the site will include the slide show you did at carmen's birthday - -

#459 | 08/05/2008, 11:51 pm, EDT | new york grandma

how did you know, dave, that i would check your posting before i went to the blog part????? i absolutely don't want you to mess with the site - it is one of the few sites i can navigate easily and find out everything i want to know!!! AND - you KNOW we are taking very good care of your darling daughter - we are just broadening her horizens a bit!! (you'll have to guess what that means!) We are loving every minute - - tonight dad stayed with her until she dropped off to sleep (a usually very short task). i am going to have him post the conversation she had with him - - very lengthy ( in the middle of counting how many times kasey played little asparagus - the one that says "i'm not scared - and then la-la-la's the rest of the song). i started relating the conversation but realized i wouldn't do justice to the details - - -
you can delete this post - - it's just too late to call you, but i had to respond to your post!!
love you all a TON!! hope you had a good (but short) 10th anniversary weekend. you have real treasures in your friends - especially eric and claudia - staying with carmen so you could get a brief respite and special weekend!!
sorry about the im-type message - it is late :)

#458 | 08/04/2008, 11:15 am, EDT | MC

http://www.neuro.jhmi.edu/Epilepsy/keto.html

#457 | 08/03/2008, 9:14 pm, EDT | ruthanne shanks

Lana, Dave and Carmen,
I just spent today with Lauren and her cousins, at church and at Grace and Doug's. I missed you all and know that a little time away can be so refreshing. Hope you had a wonderful time in NYC. Just saw your video again, and cried, AGAINl A few people from church commented that there was not a dry eye when your Dad showed your video. It's great to know that our tears will be turned to joy.
Love you,
Aunt Ruthanne

#456 | 08/03/2008, 5:10 pm, EDT | Sunni

Just couldn't get you all off my mind today...I had not looked at the website for a while. Thank you so much for sharing this journey. My heart breaks, but as I look at your family portraits and see the joy and peace on your faces in the midst of this ordeal, my tears turn from sadness to gratefulness for God's grace in your lives. I love you Lana and wish I could do more for my dear friend, but I am praying you and Dave and Lauren and Carmen with all my heart.

#455 | 08/01/2008, 9:49 pm, EDT | Heidi Fletcher

Hello to all of you. My name is Heidi and I have 4 children, two of which have juvenile onset tay-sachs. I have been reading your journal entries and relate so well to all that you are going through. So much love to all of you! Heidi
www.caringbridge.org/visitmackenzieandspencer

#454 | 07/31/2008, 6:34 pm, EDT | Oralea Marquardt

I hope that Carmen's seizures have gotten better since your last update. Just wanted to stop in and say that we are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. Oralea (William's mommy)

#453 | 07/31/2008, 3:30 pm, EDT | wendy lane

I continue to experience a plethora of emotions/thoughts when i read your updates Lana and Dave... strength (from your strength), sadness, joy, peace, heartache, faith, doubt, amazement, love, questions, answers... your real faith and real struggles are truly inspirational. You are often in my thoughts and prayers.

#452 | 07/30/2008, 4:53 pm, EDT | Nicki Luce

Wanted to stop by and say hi. Hoping Carmen is having a good day today and the seizures have subsided a bit. Sending lots of hugs from Michigan. Love, Nicki (Riley's Mommy)
www.caringbridge.org/visit/princessrileybear

#451 | 07/30/2008, 2:37 pm, EDT | Kim

Happy Belated Birthday Carmen! You have a beautiful family. Carmen and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers always.

#450 | 07/30/2008, 10:50 am, EDT | Dad

I am praying for you daily, Lana and Dave. None of us know our "due date" with the Lord, but I am confident that Carmen's will be a glorious time for her. What better place to be than the lap of our Mighty Heavenly Father, the great Healer?! (Exodus 15:26)

#449 | 07/28/2008, 11:15 pm, EDT | Carolyn

I have been following your site for sometime now and been praying as I am now. I found your site thru guatemala adoptions on adoption.com as our son was adopted from Guatemala and came home in February this year. Y'all are in our prayers.

#448 | 07/28/2008, 8:41 pm, EDT | Dave ©

Due to the issues we've had with our hosting service, we are in the process of moving our site to a new company. Over the next few days, the site may go up and down a bit. Please be patient and check back often! Thanks for your patience during this transition. Dave ©

#447 | 07/28/2008, 7:17 pm, EDT | Annamarie

You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I check your blog often to see how Carmen is doing.

#446 | 07/28/2008, 6:19 pm, EDT | Texas Grandma

Dave and Lana, Thank you for your sweet hospitality this past week! It was wonderful to be able to spend time with you and your girls. I felt so sad knowing that I will likely not see Carmen again in this life but how wonderful to know that when I do see her again she will be healthy and happy and reunited with her family.
I love the message in Isaiah 61:3: "....to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of his splendor." It is wonderful to see my daughter and son-in-law displaying His splendor as "oaks of righteousness" while going through such difficulty and pain. I am amazed at the peace that I see in you. I am so proud of you both and so happy that Lauren and Carmen have such incredible parents.

#445 | 07/27/2008, 11:39 pm, EDT | Kris

Dear Lana and Dave...My son came home from Guatemala just a couple of months before Carmen and I remember reading many of your posts on Adoption.com. Please know that you and your beautiful girls are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Thank you for sharing your inspirational journey.
Kris

#444 | 07/26/2008, 1:50 pm, EDT | Doug, Laurie & Ian Pablo Bystrek

Sending God's Blessings to your family.

#443 | 07/26/2008, 7:43 am, EDT | Diane

Dear Lana, Dave, Lauren and Carmen,
We are certainly keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,

Diane, Jim, Timothy, Matthew, Jonathan, and Annie

#442 | 07/26/2008, 12:02 am, EDT | Rashmi

Dear Lana and Dave,
We are praying for Carmen... you are never far from my thoughts.
xoxo
Rashmi

#441 | 07/25/2008, 11:55 am, EDT | Karen Ledsham

HAPPY BELATED BDAY, IT SOUNDS AS THOUGH YOU HAD A LOVELY DAY. SORRY TO HEAR YOU HAVE BEEN UNSETTLED WITH SEIZURES AND FEVER, HOPE YOU SETTLE DOWN. SORRY TO HEAR OF THE DRUG ERROR, IT SHOULDNT HAVE HAPPENED. HOPE YOU HAVE A NICE WEEKEND.
LOVE KAREN X

#440 | 07/25/2008, 9:48 am, EDT | Lola

Happy Belated Birthday Sweet Carmen !! I am so sorry that I was not able to make it to your Birthday. But, you are always on my mind and I will continue to pray for you and your family. Blessings to you always...
Love you,
Lola

#439 | 07/24/2008, 11:40 pm, EDT | Bridget Jordan

Happy Belated Birthday Beautiful Carmen. I knew your day was coming up soon so I decided to check and what a bummer I missed it. Molly and I have both been ill so Im a little behind on everything. Im sorry to hear that you are sick, but Mom is right you are a fighter and will snap back in no time. Im sending extra prayers up for you to feel better soon.

#438 | 07/23/2008, 8:56 am, EDT | lori

Lana- You journal is so wonderful and it just makes me cry to read about all the love and support you, your family and of course Carmen are receiving. The birthday party was wonderful and thank you and Carmen for touching and inspiring so many people. Love Lori

#437 | 07/22/2008, 10:48 pm, EDT | monica

I can't wait to see you all when I get home. Australia is/was great. I'm at the airport.
love & hugs, monica

#436 | 07/22/2008, 6:04 pm, EDT | New York Grandma

Dear Rachinee and all the wonderful MOPS moms who helped make the wonderful Celebration of Carmen's life possible,
THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!! for a blessed day. You are so astoundingly Christ-like in the love you have shown Lana, Dave, Lauren and Carmen - and to the rest of ourfamily.

It was an absolute privilege to be able to listen as so many were willing to share their love and thoughts on video. It truly touched my grandmother/mother heart in a way you can not imagine.

I am praying that God will bless you in a very special way - -

#435 | 07/22/2008, 2:21 pm, EDT | Aunt Sharon

You are all in our prayers. I have been reading your journals and musings. I cry when I read what you have been through. I can't imagine what you have been through and will go through. My love goes out to you with my prayers. I keep remembering Carmen's beautiful face when we were at your Grandpa Coddington's funeral. She has just a huge smile when I held her. We sometimes wonder why God allows things like this to happen but we know that God has a plan. I think of how her life would have been in the orphange in Guatemala if it weren't for the love in your hearts. She is being well cared for and loved beyond measure. It makes me think of God's love for us. You know that you would give your life for your children. That's what God did for us. He sent Jesus, to die for us when we were sick with sin. It's amazing His love for us. Your love for Carmen is so evident in your journals. I am sure she has brought a love in your hearts that you never imagined you had. Know that we think of you often. We pray for you. I also have our choir praying for you all. I am printing out your journal for them to read. I am bringing it to rehearsal tonight. There are many that have been praying. God be with you.

#434 | 07/22/2008, 12:33 pm, EDT | Martina Turner

Hi Lana, Dave, Lauren and Carmen,
We had a great time at Carmen's birthday party on Sun. Your church is beautiful and I love all your friends, they are so wonderful. Dave you did a great job on the slideshow and the photos brought tears to my eyes. Carmen is so blessed to have been given such a wonderful, loving family. God truly wanted her to be your daughter and she has touched so many peoples lives. Lana- do not worry about the slideshow cutting off the adorable picture that you took of my 3 kids with Lauren and Carmen. These things happen, but atleast you have the picture and we do! I love the picture and am going to put that photo in each one of my kids baby books. Thanks for inviting us to Carmen's Celebration of Life party. It was so beautiful and a very special day. Carmen is such a precious little girl and she will always have a place in my heart and prayers.

Love,
Martina, Bob, Ella, Nicklaus and Joseline Turner

#433 | 07/22/2008, 11:11 am, EDT | Desiree Hopf

Hey guys - we are so sorry we missed the party sounds like it was truly memorable! Happy belated birthday Carmen. We had a bit of a pregnancy scare Friday night - so we had to stick close to home. Everything is totally fine - thank goodness! Thinking of you all often.

#432 | 07/21/2008, 11:15 am, EDT | Tatiana

Happy Birthday Carmen! Lana and Dave - you are my heroes! I pray for you and your girls every day! You make me stronger, I want to be a better person looking at you! Love you,
Tatiana

#431 | 07/21/2008, 7:58 am, EDT | Tina Lutz

Happy belated birthday, Carmen!
May you astound the doctors, shock your family and friends and show the world that Jesus lives by having many more birthdays in the future! I'm fighting, believing and praying for you.

#430 | 07/21/2008, 3:01 am, EDT | Revie family

Happy birthday Carmen.
We heard about your sweet family from your aunt Trish, we have been visiting your website and praying for you all.

#429 | 07/20/2008, 9:10 pm, EDT | Sara Perry

Hi Lana and Dave,
It was a privilege to be at Carmen's birthday party today. Thank you. What a blessing it was to meet your friends and family members and to hear some of them speak about what a positive difference you and your daughters have made in their lives.

The slide show was touching and inspiring. (I'm glad I got to watch it twice).

I came home and looked for your web site. Again it felt like a privilege to learn more about you two, Lauren, and Carmen.

I felt kind of embarrassed I ended up at your table while people were speaking. That wasn't intentional. I was taking pictures in that part of the room and grabbed the closest chair when everyone started to sit down, sort of like musical chairs - and there I was. At your table. It did turn out to be an opportunity to get some good photos, though.

Keep doing what you're doing... loving and nurturing your daughters, openly sharing your journey with others, and making a positive difference in the lives of others. The light of God shines through you.

I am honored to have opportunities, however brief, to offer you support along the way. I feel blessed to be let in.

Sara

#428 | 07/20/2008, 9:03 pm, EDT | rachinee

Today's Celebration of Life was truly that for our sweet Princess Carmen Coddington's 2nd Birthday! We Thank GOD for putting her in our lives and for the honor of being able to serve the Coddington family.
To the family and friends: Thank you all so much for your help and your kindness and your presence both physically and through your prayers!

Thank you JESUS for orchestrating every bit of today - for keeping Carmen here with us so we could honor her!

Happy Birthday Princess Carmen! You may never know this side of heaven how much you have done for all of our souls!!
We love you!
rachinee (representing the pugh family and our MOPS family)

#427 | 07/20/2008, 7:47 pm, EDT | Kathy Gruben

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR CARMEN! FELIZ CUPLIANOS! We are so glad that God made you for His special and glorious purpose. -The Gruben family from New Mexico!

#426 | 07/20/2008, 7:27 pm, EDT | Rashmi

Happy Birthday sweet princess Carmen!! Thank you Lana and Dave for letting us celebrate the day with you. Lots and lots of love, Rashmi and family.

#425 | 07/20/2008, 7:22 pm, EDT | Betty Short, NY Grandma's Friend

Happy 2nd Birthday, Carmen. What a wonderful joy to celebrate.... the Day that the Lord has made. Rejoice and Be Glad In It. Hallelujah!!! Betty.

#424 | 07/20/2008, 5:07 pm, EDT | Dad/Nancy

Lana and Dave,
Although Nancy and I are not with you today, Sunday, July 20, 2008, we want to ask you to give our hugs and kisses to Carmen and Lauren. Our Life Group (Sunday School) leader this morning prayed a wonderful prayer for all of you. It included asking God for His continued strength and healing and it acknowledged the fact that many have been touched by little Carmen and your excellent parenting. We love you and want to wish Carmen a HAPPY 2ND BIRTHDAY from Granddad and Nancy.

#423 | 07/20/2008, 2:18 pm, EDT | montez

Happy 2nd Birthday Precious Baby Carmen!!!!
Love, Aunt Montez, Uncle Joe, Jacob, Katy, and Kory

#422 | 07/20/2008, 12:20 pm, EDT | Michelle Ruppert

Happy 2nd Birthday Carmen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hope you have a blessed day with your Mommy, Daddy, and Sister. I lit a candle today to remember your very special Birthday!!! Take Care, Michelle ( Rachel's Mommy)

#421 | 07/20/2008, 12:01 pm, EDT | Aunt Trish

Happy Birthday Dear Sweet Carmen
We wish we could be there to celebrate your day today!

Sending you love across the miles.

We love you so very much,
Uncle Tony, Aunt Trish and Samaiah

#420 | 07/20/2008, 12:00 pm, EDT | Diane

Happy 2nd Birthday Carmen!! Enjoy your special day with your family and friends!

Sincerely,
Diane, Jim, Timothy, Matty, Jonathan and Annie

#419 | 07/20/2008, 7:41 am, EDT | Lana

Happy 2nd Birthday Carmen!!!!!!! We love you so much! :)
Love, Mom

#418 | 07/19/2008, 11:23 am, EDT | nicola

hi
great journal & how brave you all are...

lots love xx nicola

my wee friend Dylan has tay sachs visit his bebo & his web page link on there to x
http://www.bebo.com/DYLANDICKS

#417 | 07/18/2008, 11:15 pm, EDT | Oriana (9yrs old) from Church of the Redeemer

Dear Lana, I pray for your family and Carmen. She is very pretty. But just think, the first person she'll be able to walk to and talk to is Jesus. I know it's sad for you, but she will not be feeling any more pain. I will keep you in my prayer always. You will see her in heaven some day. It will be so happy for you when you get to see your daughter walking, talking & playing. Blessings to you always. Love, Oriana

#416 | 07/18/2008, 8:08 pm, EDT | Betty Short

Praising God for all that you are teaching us. The Lord is speaking and shining through you all. You all are a blessing and Light for our paths.
Love and Blessings, Betty.

#415 | 07/18/2008, 9:31 am, EDT | Melanie

Just thinking of you all today. Praying Carmen is doing better.
God bless,
Melanie

#414 | 07/17/2008, 9:26 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

Hi Lana! Hi Guys!
Hope you are all very well. Thinking of you, sweet Carmen!

Please continue to keep Charles and all who love him in your heart, mind, and prayers. Thank you!
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/charleslee

Love,
Becky

#413 | 07/17/2008, 8:20 pm, EDT | Katy

Hello there. Im Aunt Montez's grandaughter and i thought i would drop by and let you know that Carmen is always heavy on our hearts and we are sending our prayers out to you, your family, and little Carmen.
She is a beautiful baby.

-Katy

#412 | 07/17/2008, 5:41 pm, EDT | Dave ©

I couldn't agree with NY Grandma more!!
Lana's awesome! Love you!!!

#411 | 07/17/2008, 4:34 pm, EDT | NY Grandma

I am so thankful that God gave Carmen a smart and alert mom!! Just think if you weren't so on top of everything, Lana, what the repercussions of this mistake could have been. I am so proud and grateful that God gave my son such a beautiful, intelligent and competent wife who is an awesome mom to my two little grandgirls. (And a perfect helpmate/partner for our son!)
Thank you, Lana!

Thank you, also, Charlotte and Larry, for sharing your precious daughter with our family! You raised an awesome and Godly woman.

#410 | 07/17/2008, 10:45 am, EDT | Mary Cairns

Hi, Lana and Carmen! I did get the InfaFeeders. Thank you so much for sending them. I am sorry I didn't get around to thanking you sooner:( I was wondering how exactly they work. I did get your letter, too, but i am still a little confused on what to do and since he is no longer able to eat anything by spoon, they are my last chance at getting solids down him. I hope Carmen is doing well! Take care and God bless! Hope to hear back from you soon!

#409 | 07/17/2008, 12:25 am, EDT | Bridget Jordan

Hi Lana, Im so sorry to hear about the overdose scare. I would have been so upset with that nurse. Its funny how we think professionals are always doing the right thing and often don't think about checking their actions. I will from now own. We don't have nursing care unless on rare occasions when Molly is in the hospital or needs shots. Mark overdosed Molly on her seizure meds not long ago. I gave her all 3 of them an hour before and told him not to give her meds she only needed fed. I took a bath and when I came out I was horrified to find the medicine syringes next to her. I had to pump the contents out of her stomach by her tube and monitered her all night for any changes. She was ok but since I emptied her stomach I'm not sure if she got any benefit from any of her meds. Our poor children go through enough without any mistakes being made in their care.

#408 | 07/16/2008, 5:47 pm, EDT | Texas Grandma

Okay, here's my caption even though it's too late.....
"While she sleeps...Don't waste the moment. Discover Christ as your life and one day she will wake up to His life as her own."

#407 | 07/16/2008, 5:37 pm, EDT | Texas Grandma

I have not had access to a computer since my move to Lufkin so that's why I haven't posted. I loved the photo and the contest but was too late to submit an idea for a caption. There were some really great ones!! Maybe you need first place, second place, third place, fourth place, etc., etc....Anyway, we can't wait to see all of you. Please pray for a safe flight.

#406 | 07/16/2008, 2:05 pm, EDT | Michelle Ruppert

Hello, Lana! WOW! What a scare, I'm glad Carmen is doing better now. Rachel also has a lot of secretions. We have found that using the transderm scop patch (1.5mg) and the Robinul (1mg) works good. Rachel gets the Robinul three times a day, which is in tablet form. If Rachel is having lots of secretions then we give her an extra Robinul to get her thur the night (in her last feeding). Is Carmen's Robinul liquid form? We also have to crush our Robinul like Nicki. The combination of the patch and Robinul has done wonders for Rachel. I was concerned about mixing the two, but Rachel's doctor was O.k. with it as long as she didn't dry up too much, and that hasn't happened. At night we also lay a blanket out on the floor (so we have a harder surface than the bed) and place Rachel on her stomach, due to all the secretions so gravity helps it falll out. If she sleeps on her back or in her chair, she coughs, and gags all night long. We still suction during the day and night but not as much. I don't know how bad Carmen's secretions are, but Rachel's is a daily battle. Some days better than other. I hope this was of some help. If you have questions, please call me 260-432-0181. Hope Carmen has a wonderful Celebration of Life birthday on Sunday. I'll light a candle after Mass on Sunday to remember this beautiful little girl of yours. God Bless! Michelle (Rachel's Mom)

#405 | 07/16/2008, 1:06 pm, EDT | Magen

Hello, I am an adoptive mother of two little boys from Guatemala. I am very sorry to hear about little Carmen, you are a very strong woman and family. I know that God has put Carmen on this earth for many many reasons, her short life will have so many purposes. I will continue to pray for Carmen and your family in these days to come.

#404 | 07/16/2008, 10:47 am, EDT | Nicki Luce

I am so sorry to read about the Robinul scare, Lana. That must have been so frightening. That little bitty drug is so powerful. Many years ago, Riley got an impacted colon from it. That, however, was not from an overdose but just from trying to find a happy medium between too much and not too much. We use a tablet form that we crush up (not quite sure on the mg) and give through the tube. After many trials and errors, I think we have found that 1/2 a tablet (as needed) is best for Riley. I certainly pray that Little Carmen recovers well from this latest scare and that her birthday celebration is perfect in every way. Thinking of you, Nicki (Riley's Mommy)
www.caringbridge.org/visit/princessrileybear

#403 | 07/16/2008, 12:46 am, EDT | monica

Happy almost birthday from Australia!!!!!!!
God is good! You are all in my prayers.
monica

#402 | 07/15/2008, 5:39 pm, EDT | Angie Fentress

I've been following your journey for some months and pray for your family every night. I'm so in awe of your strength and faith and want you to know that you and Carmen are touching people who you will never meet with your story. We brought our daughter home from Guat almost a year ago and know what a joy it is to have been given the privelege of adoption. You'll continue to be in my prayers.

#401 | 07/15/2008, 2:20 pm, EDT | Dad-Nancy

Just as Carmen rests in your arms, Lana (and Dave and Lauren), she will one day rest in the Lord's arms-free from all the medications and devices she needs now. In the meantime, it is wonderful she has your tremendous love and support.
Dad

#400 | 07/15/2008, 1:27 pm, EDT | Tina Lutz

Thank You, Jesus, that Carmen is doing better. I've been thinking about her and praying for her constantly all week!

#399 | 07/15/2008, 9:11 am, EDT | Melanie

Oh, Lana....so NOT the update I wanted to read!! But, am thankful to know what's going on. I think of you guys every day. I wish I lived closer and could be there to help with things. Not sure what but anything to help! Lauren and Connor could play together or something ;)
I wish I knew more about the Rubinol, but I don't. I'm so glad you caught that and righted the over-dosing straight away. I'm lifting you & Carmen up in prayer.
Sending a big hug,
Melanie (Guatemom)

#398 | 07/15/2008, 8:46 am, EDT | Barbara

Hello Lana, Dave and Lauren. I am a friend of Martina's and she has told me all about you and about Carmen. I am praying for all of you. Your strength and depth of love is an inspiration and a true message from God.
I heard and read about the overdose. I am an RN and have worked with criticaql care pediatric patients. This error is beyond inexcusable. God will take her when it is time. To have her go through any discomfort and possible have it take her is again...inexcusable and difficult to even think about. I wish you peace and comfort in this terribly difficult time.

#397 | 07/15/2008, 12:41 am, EDT | Kathie

I am so sorry this happened. I check daily if not more. Was glad to see an update but so sorry it was so upsetting for you. I pray you have better days.
Carmen is so lucky to have you for parents.
God Bless you all.

#396 | 07/14/2008, 10:33 pm, EDT | gail

My medically fragile foster daughter takes Robinul. She weighs 37 lbs and takes 5 mls 3 x daily.
I can't even begin to imagine Carmen receiving the dosage that she was given. I agree she doesn't deserve to be treated in this manner.

What a blessing she has with her family loving on her.

gail

#395 | 07/12/2008, 5:20 pm, EDT | Larry

caption for photo:
"Resting in our Father's wide open arms."

...from #386 and Scott Stapp

#394 | 07/12/2008, 3:23 pm, EDT | Cindy DeShone

Caption for picture
A REAL EYE OPENER !!!!!!!!
May God bless your family and i will be praying for you all.
This touches my heart as i am a single mom with 2 adopted boys from Guatemala. They are 4 and 7 and i love them oh, so much.
Blessings Cindy

#393 | 07/11/2008, 3:32 pm, EDT | Larry

caption for photo-
Lauren's dream: "I love my Daddy."

Dave's thought: "I love my Daddy."

...working on the graphic

#392 | 07/11/2008, 1:41 pm, EDT | steve™

Caption:
"One of the greatest joys in life is to relax while reading a good book and holding a beautiful princess in your arms"

#391 | 07/11/2008, 1:39 pm, EDT | steve™

Caption:
"I wanted daddy to play Barbie and Prince Phillip with me. Instead, we read this book with no pictures in it!"

#390 | 07/11/2008, 1:32 pm, EDT | steve

"Apparently even Erwin Mcmanus can't keep us all 'Wide Awake'"

#389 | 07/11/2008, 12:38 pm, EDT | Larry

caption for photo:
"Lauren will be wide awake soon. I better finish this paragraph and get ready for Trish."

#388 | 07/10/2008, 9:44 pm, EDT | Indira Thomas

Lana, after reading your update and watching you with Carmen the other day. You are by far the most amazing mother I have ever known...the Christ in you shines through.

#387 | 07/10/2008, 9:11 pm, EDT | Aunt Trish

Restfully in His wide awake arms...
Sleeping in His wide awake arms...

Restfully sleeping in His wide awake arms...

Daddy is wide awake...so I can rest...

#386 | 07/10/2008, 8:40 pm, EDT | Aunt Trish

Or...
Resting in our Father's wide awake arms
someone else might be able to make it better than I can...

#385 | 07/10/2008, 7:47 pm, EDT | Aunt Trish

Caption:
Our Father is wide awake, while we rest in His arms

#384 | 07/10/2008, 11:03 am, EDT | Larry

caption for photo:
"The eyes (and prayers) of Texas are upon you."

#383 | 07/09/2008, 4:56 pm, EDT | Karen Ledsham

HI, JUST LETTING YOU KNOW I AM THINKING ABOUT YOU ALL. I LOVE THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT YOUR JOURNEY. I HOPE I CAN FEEL LIKE YOU SOMEDAY, INSTEAD OF FEELING SO VERY ANGRY.
LOVE KAREN X

#382 | 07/09/2008, 3:55 pm, EDT | Kim Crawford

Captions:
Eyes Wide Shut
Dream a little dream of me
Asleep in my arms as I awaken my heart
Glad you had such a nice 4th of July!

#381 | 07/09/2008, 12:45 pm, EDT | Larry

caption for photo-
Lauren's dream: "I love my Daddy."

Dave's thought: "I love my Daddy."

#380 | 07/09/2008, 11:09 am, EDT | Jan Skauge

Dear Ones,
Betty Short told me about Carmen. I have just spent about 30 minutes on your beautiful site. Thank you for sharing your hearts, your faith, and your two precious daughters with us via this site. My husband and I will pray for you (I will tell him your story tonight). We are also remembering 5-year-old Mia, from Wisconsin, who has a different degenerative disease, but similar symptoms and diagnosis.
Simply by reading your site, we see how the Lord is using you and your little girls to touch hearts and lives for eternity. The anticipation of the glory you will experience in heaven because of your witness here on earth moves my heart to thanksgiving and praise, though my heart is also heavy as I ponder the journey you are walking.
One of my (our) favorite verses is Deuteronomy 33:27a: "The eternal God is your dwelling place, and underneath are the everlasting arms." I know that those loving arms cradle Carmen and also cradle you in love so divine, so huge, so unimaginably blessed and sweet.
Holding you in my heart and prayers,
Jan Skauge

#379 | 07/08/2008, 11:26 pm, EDT | Susan

God bless you and your family. I have been following your journey. Carmen is so lucky to be in your family receiving such tender love and care. I can't imagine how heartbreaking this journey is for your family. She would have never received this care in Guatemala and probably wouldn't have lived this long. I know she is a blessing in your lives. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

#378 | 07/08/2008, 6:24 pm, EDT | Betty Short, Dave's Mom's friend.

Caption for photo.... not in competition, but loved this caption and wanted to share.
"....And like a flood His mercy reigns, unending love, amazing grace."

Blessings.

#377 | 07/08/2008, 6:08 pm, EDT | New York Grandma

I just received a message that Grace Utter - a little girl in our town who has recently had both her kidneys removed in preparation for a transplant is suddenly not doing well. She was well over the weekend and then suddenly went into seizures, life threatening high fever and is unconscious. Plerase - I know many of you out there are praying for Carmen - please add little Grace to you prayers. You can read about her at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/graceutter

#376 | 07/08/2008, 8:05 am, EDT | Sarah

Dave - Thank you for your latest post. My husband and I know exactly where you were coming from and your post gives me hope that in the future we can be where you are now in your marriage and maybe give others hope who feel like running. Thank you.
I am keeping you all in my prayers as I read of Carmen's life. God's peace be with you today and may you all feel his mercy and love.

Sarah

#375 | 07/07/2008, 2:19 pm, EDT | Larry

caption for photo:
"Sweet dreams. Focused attention. Wise investment."

#374 | 07/07/2008, 11:34 am, EDT | ellie

Cap~
Heart and Sole

#373 | 07/07/2008, 9:00 am, EDT | Rashmi

Thinking of you Lana and Dave. We are looking forward to seeing you at Carmen's Celebration of Life party.
xoxo
Rashmi

#372 | 07/07/2008, 4:18 am, EDT | Denise Stuesse

I am in tears I as read Carmen's updates and watch the Never Let Go video. It is beautiful. Even tho my son Blake had a different diagnosis, so much of what Carmen is dealing with is just like what Blake went through. Blake did the 'stop breathing' thing (cheyne stokes-I believe) for 9 months. It was so scary at first but then I got more used to it. Please know that I am here if you would like to talk or email.
I am thankful to hear you are enjoying Carmen and cherishing each moment with her.
Sending you lots of love.
Denise, mom to Blake, Daniel, Drew and our Guatemalan princess, Brielle

#371 | 07/07/2008, 1:14 am, EDT | Aunt Trish

P.S.S.
I just wanted to clarify that while I am proud of you both, I know that what is going on in your hearts is the evidence of God's work of mercy and grace in your lives and He is shining through to the rest of us. Praise Him!

#370 | 07/07/2008, 1:04 am, EDT | Aunt Trish

I just need to say....I am sitting here after reading today's journal entries for both of you....and I am so proud of you both. I love you a ton!
Trish

PS. Maybe this isn't a good thing to say, but when you were "running", your wife and I truly became sisters in the process and for that I am grateful even though it was a hard time in your lives.

#369 | 07/06/2008, 9:52 pm, EDT | monica

CAPTION:
There is no safer place~than in Our Father's arms.

#368 | 07/04/2008, 10:23 pm, EDT | April

A family of ours told me of your website and that your daughter, Carmen, had the same disease as their son, Ryan.
Watching the videos brought tears to my eyes - my heart goes out to you during these difficult times with your little one. But, God had a plan and He knew your family would make life comfortable and loving for Carmen for however long she would be on this earth.
I will pray for Carmen as I do for Ryan and when her day comes, I hope it will be peaceful and without any pain or discomfort.
God Bless you and your family
In peace,
April

#367 | 07/04/2008, 3:10 am, EDT | Diana

Still thinking of your family and Carmen often. Praying for comfort for her and all of you. I pray to God that Carmen will not have to suffer and will feel all of the love around her. From all of you and all of your blog friends. You are an amazing family and so blessed to be Carmen's family most of all. My heart breaks for you and I will continue to keep Carmen in my prayers. Both of you girls are so beautiful.
Hugs,
D
Adoptive Momma to 2 yr. old Guatemalan Beauty

#366 | 07/03/2008, 9:47 pm, EDT | Michelle Dyer

I don't know much about this disease or anything but I am a christain and I will be praying for God's will to be done. I can't imagine what you are going through but I do know that you are right, Heaven is the place that we all know that we want to be in someday and it will be the greatest thing that God can do for your little Angel when the time comes. I have a sister and brother that died very young that I never even met that one day I hope to meet in Heaven!

#365 | 07/03/2008, 5:29 pm, EDT | Dad & Nancy

It's good to read that Carmen is doing a little better. She and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love always,

Dad

#364 | 07/03/2008, 5:25 pm, EDT | Dad

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#363 | 07/03/2008, 3:27 pm, EDT | Rosanna

Dear David & Lana,
I realize this is coming from total strangers. But David's sister, Trish, shared Carmen's website on an email group we are both on and our hearts were deeply touched and moved to read of all your experiences.
We know what it is like to get lots of advice from well meaning friends and family and it may seem rather far fetched to receive that from total strangers. But we would LOVE to share with you personally about a synergistically balanced nutrition and how it has changed the lives of many people even those whose doctor's said there was nothing they could do anymore.
I trust God can bless our desire to share some hope. Please feel free to send us an email at heatwole@vianet.ca or call us at 807-487-2669 and we'd be more than happy to share more personally with you.
May God be near to you during this time.
Keith & Rosanna

#362 | 07/03/2008, 1:49 pm, EDT | Nicki Luce

Lana, hoping Carmen is having a good day today and that you all have a wonderful holiday with your in-laws. Please give her some hugs for me. Thinking of you, Nicki (Riley's Mommy)
www.caringbridge.org/visit/princessrileybear

#361 | 07/03/2008, 8:38 am, EDT | Jack

Hey guys, just wanted to stop in and say hi!

#360 | 07/02/2008, 10:46 pm, EDT | Aunt Trish

Was it really one year ago that you called me right after that appointment? I knew it was somewhere around now, but seems like it's been longer. What a year it has been.
I am so glad that Carmen is doing better and that the medication is working. We are still praying and will continue to do so.

Sending you all love and hugs,
Trish for all of us

#359 | 07/02/2008, 12:09 am, EDT | Bonnie Davis

I am so sorry to hear about Carmen. Hoping you are able to find moments of peace.
Bonnie

#358 | 07/01/2008, 10:42 pm, EDT | Melody

Lana and Dave, you and Carmen are in my prayers. I pray that God reveal's his purpose to you and comfort you through this difficult time.

#357 | 07/01/2008, 8:49 pm, EDT | Michelle Ruppert

Hi, Lana--I'm so sorry to hear about Carmen. I'll put her in my prayers. I'v never been to any of the websites. Carmen's is the first and just out of the blue I wanted to see how she was. Your in my thought and Prayers, Michelle

#356 | 07/01/2008, 8:22 pm, EDT | Sara Modi

Lana,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you guys. I am so sorry to hear that Carmen is not doing well. You are such a wonderful mother. I hope you realize that. We will be at Carmen's party.

#355 | 07/01/2008, 7:36 pm, EDT | Dorie

Just wanted to know I'm praying for you all and especially for Carmen. I'm another adoptive mom of a 2 year old from Guatemala and I check your site frequently for updates. I'm so sorry to hear that Carmen is doing so poorly.

#354 | 07/01/2008, 6:48 pm, EDT | Amy

You are ALL in my thoughts and prayers.
((((HUGS)))
Amy

#353 | 07/01/2008, 4:10 pm, EDT | dawnz

I can't imagine the myriad of feelings you are going through. Praying for you. And thanking God for your faithfulness on this journey.

#352 | 07/01/2008, 11:17 am, EDT | Melanie

I was so relieved to seen an update today: but then to see that Carmen isn't doing well...my heart just sinks. I, too, pray that God is merciful; that He will give all of you strength and comfort, and most of all peace. You are each a testimony.
Sending you lots of hugs and prayers,
Melanie

#351 | 07/01/2008, 2:40 am, EDT | Melissa

Hi, I am an adoptive mom of two beautiful girls from Guatemala. I know you from the Guatemala forum that I am on and I check your site daily to check on sweet Carmen. I want you to know that Carmen and your family are in our prayers and I stand in awe at your incredible strength. You are right,......once Carmen enters into Heaven she will never have pain again. She will be able to run and play with Jesus. What a sweet thought. I pray for strength, wisdom, and joy as you continue to care for Carmen. What an awesome responsibility God has given you in loving and caring for Carmen while on this earth, and in preparing her to meet her Maker. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family. Melissa

#350 | 07/01/2008, 12:31 am, EDT | Amy Anderson

Tay-Sachs SUCKS!!! Lana, you say everything that I say, I just wish that I could write it down like you. I'm so sorry that Carmen isnt doing well but you are so right...she will be able to run and play when her life here on earth is over. What a wonderful thing. It makes it so hard to look at death as a bad thing. I pray that Carmen is comfortable. I know that she is getting so much great love and care that she must be taking in every minute and enjoying it so.
In my prayers.

#349 | 06/30/2008, 11:56 pm, EDT | nancy

You and Dave are doing a fabulous job with Carmen and with Lauren too! It's hard, really hard. I check your updates often..... Ry is regressing quite a bit. He turned two May 22nd. We had a special celebration weekend at a local beach house - just our family. A quiet time together to just....... be. I'm so glad you were able to receive hospice and nursing - not in NY. My heart and prayers are with you. Let's talk soon. xo Nancy

#348 | 06/30/2008, 11:51 pm, EDT | Krystal

Praying for beautiful Carmen and for your family.

#347 | 06/30/2008, 3:22 pm, EDT | Melanie

Just stopping in to say hello & you're still in my prayers. Every time I hear "Never let go" on Klove, I think of you all.
God bless,
Melanie

#346 | 06/28/2008, 5:53 pm, EDT | Kristian Johnston

Sending you lots of love and prayers!!

#345 | 06/26/2008, 2:58 pm, EDT | Becca

Lana, I made your marinated chicken fingers the other night and it was wonderful! I think I got the recipe from you in college! Finally, I have the time to try fun things like that. Miss you and love you, thanks for the updates.

#344 | 06/26/2008, 1:42 pm, EDT | Desiree Hopf

Hi guys - I have been thinking of you so much and so relieved to hear that you worked out the insurance issues for hospice care. Truly it was the best decision we made in Conner's care. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. I would love to come visit one day. Things have been so crazy around here, but you have been in my thoughts!

#343 | 06/26/2008, 12:40 pm, EDT | Melanie

Just wanted to say I'm glad Carmen is responding to the Zithromax well. But am so sorry to hear of her breathing diffficulties to boot! Glad Lauren is doing better, too. I check for updates every day and always keep you guys in my prayers.
Sending a big hug,
Melanie (aka, Guatemom)

#342 | 06/25/2008, 9:47 pm, EDT | Rashmi

Dear Lana and Dave,
Thinking of you. How is Carmen doing? Has her fever gone away?
xoxo
Rashmi

#341 | 06/23/2008, 5:23 pm, EDT | wendy lane

oh i almost cried when i read about Carmen crying friday. how hard. i'm so sorry both girls are sick. i pray lana and dave that you stay healthy! thanks for the marinade ideas, we love to grill too. did i ever tell you i tried the meatballs you gave the recipe for with apricots? it was yummy as you said! God be with you all. you're in my prayers often.

#340 | 06/23/2008, 4:55 pm, EDT | claudia cole

just wanted to say hi and that i have been keeping up with you guys through your mom and your web page.. you have beautiful girls and my heart goes out to all of you guys.. (or should i say ya'll)your strength is an inspiration to us all...

#339 | 06/23/2008, 3:49 pm, EDT | Liz Warren

I've truly missed not visiting... stay stong and JUSTBELIEVE...
www.caringbridge.org/visit/liz2008

#338 | 06/22/2008, 5:26 am, EDT | Karen Ledsham

JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW WE ARE THINKING ABOUT YOU ALL
LOVE KAREN X

#337 | 06/20/2008, 7:49 pm, EDT | Kim

I am a fellow adoptive parent from Guatemala and found about Carmen through that little adoption forum we wind up at. I think of your family often and pray for all of you. I also thank you for sharing this personal journey. I hope Carmen's birthday is extra special and the party is as beautiful as your entire family.

#336 | 06/19/2008, 9:22 pm, EDT | Indira

Hi Lana and Dave,
Just wanted you to know through the loss of power and the boil water advisory you all were on my mind and prayers. I will call soon.

Happy Father's Day, Dave! it sounds like you had a terrific time.

You all are an inspiration to me!

#335 | 06/19/2008, 12:40 pm, EDT | Dad/Nancy

Lauren,
Thank you for the letter and self-portrait! Please hug Carmen, Mommy and Daddy for us. Sending you some photos of Micah soon. We pray almost every day for the 4 of you.
You are learning things most people don't understand until they are old: what is important in life is knowing that Jesus loves you and He wants you to love Him and other people.

We are going to Houston to help Ruth Ann with her car. She is getting ready to go to South Africa as part of her school and training to help people who want to adopt little children who need families like yours.

We will check on Kevin's shingles and Micah's mouth. Please pray that Micah does not get shingles. That would really hurt!

Keep reading all those books and you will be ready to go to school to be whatever Jesus wants you to be. We love you! Granddad/Nancy

#334 | 06/18/2008, 12:40 am, EDT | Natalie Weimer

Just thinking about ya'll.

#333 | 06/17/2008, 4:28 pm, EDT | Nicki Luce (Riley's Mommy)

Just checking in on little Miss Carmen. Sorry I haven't written lately, just finding time to do everything in 24 hours seems to be a lot for me these days. I hope all is well with you and that your water is up and running very soon. Hopefully it is already! Please give some hugs to your princess for us. We think of you often, even though I don't post. Love, Nicki (Riley's Mommy)

#332 | 06/16/2008, 4:56 pm, EDT | Karen Ledsham

JUST LETTING YOU KNOW WE ARE THINKING ABOUT YOU AND HOPE THE FEVER GOES
LOVE KAREN & FAMILY X

#331 | 06/16/2008, 3:02 pm, EDT | Elaine

I just wanted you to know I have had you on my mind the last few days. You don't know me but I have seen your post on the adoption boards. I am complete awe of you and your family. I watched the video your husband did and just cried. It is so beautiful and I know how hard this has to be on you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers. Much love to you and yours.
Elaine

#330 | 06/16/2008, 2:27 pm, EDT | Lisa Rogers

Hello Lana, I just found your website and wanted to say Hi and that I think about you and your wonderful family. It was so nice meeting you in Tampa. Carmen is so beautiful as is Lauren. I am always here if you need to talk. Praying and thinking of you always, take care, Lisa (Gabby's Mom)

#329 | 06/16/2008, 9:27 am, EDT | Tina Lutz

Love you! *Hugs*

#328 | 06/12/2008, 10:53 pm, EDT | Karen Pullano

Hi - I found you on Asher and Jacob's friends and want you to know that I will be praying for your precious Carmen. Your faith is beautiful - thank you....
you may be interested in www.lifesongljl.org - Lorraine of Jesus - has a healing gift and the Lord delivers miracles through her hands. Nothing is impossible for God and it's never too late for a miracle!!
In God's Love,
Karen - Mikey's mom

#327 | 06/11/2008, 8:14 pm, EDT | Aunt Ruthanne

Hey Dave,
Just saw your latest/last version of the video you showed me last time I was there. Great job - you kept the best of the best, and yes, I cried again. Lana, Lauren, and Carmen - you are in sooooo many wonderful conversations with the Lord with sooooo many people - you will not (nor will I) know how much until we are all with our wonderful Lord together. Healing is there, maybe not as we think of it, then again, maybe more fabulously than we can imagine. I love you all.
Aunt Ruthanne

#326 | 06/11/2008, 7:23 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

Simply stopping by to say "hello" and let you know I'mky thinking about you CARMEN, Lauren, Lana, and Dave!
Hugs,
Becky

#325 | 06/11/2008, 8:28 am, EDT | Laura Lynn

Thank you so much for registering your beautiful Carmen on our Friend's site. Please know that I will be keeping your family in my prayers and we will ask others to do the same. Never hesitate to let me know if there is anything else we can do for you.

#324 | 06/09/2008, 4:46 pm, EDT | Karen Ledsham

Hi,
We too have been thinking of visiting a funeral home to make some enquiries as it will be too difficult at the time and we dont want to feel rushed, etc. Sending you love and hugs.
Love Karen & family

#323 | 06/09/2008, 3:52 pm, EDT | Mary Cairns

Hi, Lana and Carmen! Thank you so much for signing Isaiah's cb site and for what you said. I don;t think it could mean anymore coming from anyone else. You and your husband inspire me to be a better mom, wife, and Christian. Thank you! God bless!

#322 | 06/07/2008, 12:39 am, EDT | Mary Cairns

Hi, Lana, Carmen, Dave, and Lauren! I haven't been on your site for a while and I am sorry for that. I have spent quite a while catching up on your past few weeks and I am glad you are all doing well. I just watched your video and I absolutely love it! I had to catch my breath when the verse at the end was from the book of Isaiah. I truly feel like we named him that for a reason. I also watched the "Starts with being a dad" video and I loved it as well. It made me realize that I have been drifting away from God recently and I need to work on my relationship with Him. You are truly inspiring people and I can't wait to see you again in Boston. God bless you and have a great weekend!

#321 | 06/03/2008, 5:52 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

What a great update! The totebags sound like fun and, that must have been one heck of a windy rain to blow your hot dogs away...wow! :)
Thank you so much for mentioning Bryan in a recent update.

I'd also ask everyone to please keep William in their prayers as he is having a tough go of it, right now...

Please keep WILL and his family in your thoughts and prayers. He is having a hard time right now. www.carepages.com (Site name: WilliamJM) Thanks!

Love,
Becky
http://www.smee-2008.blogspot.com

#320 | 06/03/2008, 8:30 am, EDT | NY Grandma's Friend, Betty.

What a wonderful time with Lauren and the Polly Pockets, the
Three Sisters. Praise the Lord, Worship Jesus and Rejoice in His Holy Spirit. Our breath and heartbeat constantly. And, He will never leave us nor forsake us. Thank you, YHWH. Betty.

#319 | 06/02/2008, 10:59 pm, EDT | Dad/Nancy

Lana/Dave We thought about you alot while we were attending Dennis/Barbara Raineys Family Life conference: A Weekend to Remember. We would like to give you a Weekend to Remember if/when it is hosted in your area. Thank you for the updates! As you already know, when precious Carmen leaves your arms she will be lifted lovingly to her Heavenly Father's arms to live happily forever. Dad/Nancy

#318 | 06/01/2008, 1:39 pm, EDT | Lisa S.

came across your blog thru adoption.com - my prayers are with you and your beautiful family each day! And congrats on becoming debt-free - having just finished FPU classes, I "get it"! blessings to all, Lisa S.

#317 | 05/30/2008, 9:02 am, EDT | Melanie

So sorry to hear about Bryan. I remember how much you liked meeting them in Florida. Blessings on their family! (and yours!)

#316 | 05/30/2008, 7:33 am, EDT | Denise Bosworth

Our ongoing love and thoughts to your family. I just think what a miracle it is that God brought Carmen to your family to love and cherish her in this world. Her life through your family is such a testimony. Thanks for keeping this website. Many blessings and God's daily provision and strength.

#315 | 05/28/2008, 5:51 pm, EDT | New York Grandma

I have no words to express my sorrow for Bryan's parents and the Chapman family. I just hope they realize the love and prayers that surround them at this time. I continue to be amazed at the continuing support and encouragement of the many families who are going through similar circumstances - and who, in the midst of their own discouraging circumstances, remain faithful in their love, support, encouragement and prayers for others. What a BLESSING!!

#314 | 05/27/2008, 4:35 pm, EDT | Karen Ledsham

Just letting you know we are thinking of you.
Love Karen & family

#313 | 05/27/2008, 1:14 am, EDT | Melanie

Great job on the video, Dave. What a beautiful recollection. Putting together a video is quite a feat! Praying for you all. I can picture Jesus holding and guarding Carmen even now. Love and blessings.

#312 | 05/25/2008, 9:19 pm, EDT | Maureen

I have started at least a dozen messages to you, Lana and family. No matter how I try, I cannot find the words to adequately express my overwhelming saddness for you, my happiness for Carmen that she is with you, my confusion about why that beautiful creature is stricken with this terrible illness...so many emotions.
Your faith is such an awesome, beautiful thing...! You have touched my life in a way I cannot describe in this post. Truly awe inspiring.

I hope you feel the love and prayers coming your way from across the globe.

Maureen
Dallas, Texas
(oscarsmom on the adoption.com guatemalan forum)

#311 | 05/25/2008, 8:35 am, EDT | Dad/Nancy

Lana/Dave
We continue to pray Philippians 4: 6-8 for you as you strive to care for both of your gifts from the LORD. Thank you for keeping us informed with UPDATES. We love each of you! Dad/Nancy

#310 | 05/24/2008, 4:09 pm, EDT | Desiree Hopf

Just a quick note to let you know that your on my mind :)

#309 | 05/22/2008, 6:27 pm, EDT | Diana

Hi,
I have left you a comment before but I am also an adoptive mom to a little girl from Guatemala. I think of Carmen and your family all the time since I first saw your website. I pray for Carmen frequently and for strength and peace for all of you. Sending huge hugs and good thoughts,
D

#308 | 05/22/2008, 5:40 pm, EDT | Christine Piccillo (WaitingforIsabel)

God Bless you - i am praying for little Carmen and for your strength. I remember reading about your diagnosis on teh Guatemala Forum, and saw a message today. I was glad to check out your blog. Know that I am praying !

#307 | 05/22/2008, 4:45 pm, EDT | Laurie ten Berge

I hope that Carmen is feeling better. Thinking about you, Laurie (Big Elise's mommy)

#306 | 05/21/2008, 8:59 pm, EDT | Granddad/Nancy

Lauren,
It was great to talk with you last Friday. Be looking for a package from Granddad with another book and stationery. Some of the envelopes are addressed to New York Grandpa, Grandma, Texas Grandma and to Granddad. Have fun with the purple stickers!

#305 | 05/21/2008, 6:46 pm, EDT | michelle & ella mather

HI
JUST DROPPED BY TO SAY HELLO,AND THANK YOU FOR MY MESSAGE.SOUNDS LIKE CARMEN AND ELLAS ARE HAVING SIMULAR PROBLEMS AND SIMULAR SEIZUES, I HOPE THEY BOTH GET SORTED SOON WITH THE CORRECT MEDICINE/DOSAGE.

LOVE TO YOU ALL
MICHELLE,ELLA AND FAMILY

#304 | 05/21/2008, 3:40 pm, EDT | Nicki (Riley's Mommy)

I just watched your video. It is beautiful, although very heart breaking. It brought me to tears knowing that another family has to face the same journey we've been traveling. Thank you for sharing Carmen with us. I hope she is doing well and that the Phenobarbital increase is helping her seizure activity. And, thumbs up on obtaining both the visiting nurse and hospice. That's awesome! Sending lots of hugs your way, Nicki (Riley's Mommy)

#303 | 05/20/2008, 9:16 pm, EDT | Donna C

I also adopted a baby girl from Guatemala. Carmen is in my prayers. You must be very special for God has entrusted you with this monumental task. You are truely blessed. May God bless you and hold you in His hand. Remember when there are only one set of footprints, it is then that He carried you. Let Him carry you now.

#302 | 05/20/2008, 9:08 pm, EDT | Rachel Hatanaka

Hi guys-
God is so good! Praying for your family and trusting in our Savior.
Be Blessed-
Rachel

#301 | 05/20/2008, 7:55 pm, EDT | Karen McDonald

I ran across your YouTube video a little while ago and I'm just overwhelmed with emotion for your family. As the mother of two beautiful Guatemalan boys who came to us through adoption, I can't even imagine what it's like to watch your precious angel going through this. Please know that your family is in my prayers. May the Lord bless you and be with you always.
Karen in GA

#300 | 05/20/2008, 2:41 pm, EDT | Becky W.

Hello Coddingtons! Thank you so much for your prayers on behalf of Dad and our family.
Here is an update:

By all accounts, everything went well yesterday, no problems. Dad's surgery didn't begin until 4:05 PM. Mom saw him around 11:00 PM last night and he looked good. His coloring was normal, even. Mom then e-mailed us today and said that he is doing really well. The breathing tube was removed at 2:00 AM, and, as of 7:30 AM, he'd already sat in a chair for a while!

Most recently, he is sitting up again, had a liquid lunch, and is drinking lots of water. Everything is currently working as it should.

Whoohoo! Way to go, Dad! Please keep the prayers coming.

Love,
Becky

#299 | 05/20/2008, 1:27 pm, EDT | Valerie Fraedrich

Dave & Lana -
I read your site at least weekly to keep up with things: weeping when you weep, rejoicing when you rejoice, and ever talking with Abba God about you and for you. What an awesome privilege it is to know you and as a result see God at work in and through you. You're doing good...

Love,
Valerie
(2 Cor. 12:9)

#298 | 05/20/2008, 1:32 am, EDT | Cheryl

Lana, Carmen and family: your video is beautiful and brought me to (alot of ) tears. I think of you all and Carmen often and pray for you.
C Rogers

#297 | 05/19/2008, 2:56 pm, EDT | Texas Grandma

Dave, You did a great job on the video!! It is such a wonderful expression of Carmen and your entire family. I really, really appreciate your creating it and giving us a fuller understanding of what your family is experiencing.

#296 | 05/19/2008, 12:07 pm, EDT | Karen Ledsham

JUST STOPPING BY TO SEND YOU OUR LOVE. THE VIDEO IS LOVELY AND BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES.
LOVE KAREN & FAMILY

#295 | 05/18/2008, 10:50 pm, EDT | Liz Warren

The video took my breath away!
xoxo...

#294 | 05/18/2008, 10:33 pm, EDT | Liz Warren

Thanks, Lana!

#293 | 05/17/2008, 8:32 am, EDT | Kim

I saw your web-site on adoptionforms.com We have a daughter and our son, Coleton, is from Guatemala. You have a wonderful family!! Thank you for sharing yourselves with us. I think about you everyday.

#292 | 05/16/2008, 10:22 pm, EDT | J'aime Ki rlew

Beautiful video. It is very moving and helps our family to better understand your present life. We will lift prayers up to heaven for you daily, The Kirlew Family.

#291 | 05/16/2008, 2:41 am, EDT | The Gruben family

We are friends of Trish and Tony's. I just wanted you all to know that your dear family has been in our prayers. We have a little girl whom we are in the process of adopting and she looks like Carmen's sister! Every time that I look at our Emmie, I think of your Carmen and I pray for her often.-kathy

#290 | 05/15/2008, 11:09 pm, EDT | Uncle Tony & Auntie Trish

We tried to look at the video the other night, but it said that it was gone... Just watched it with Tony, needless to say that we cried together a lot. All we can say is WOW! (Did I ever send you the photos of when she first came home? The ones with Dad praying for her too?)
We miss you all so much and hate that we are not there to see our precious nieces more often - to be apart of their lives. We have to trust God has a plan even if we don't like where He has us right now.

We pray for you every single day and know that our hearts are with you all the way. Hey, that rhymed and I didn't mean it, anybody want a peanut!?!

Love to you all and kisses to our dear sweet girls.
Auntie Trish

#289 | 05/15/2008, 3:30 pm, EDT | wendy lane

i saw the video at your home, but just watched it again. it is so powerful. thanks for sharing - you all are in my thoughts and prayers
-wendy

#288 | 05/15/2008, 1:18 pm, EDT | Algebra II Pre-AP 5th Period

We adore your little girl, she is soooo cute! We will keep Carmen in our prayers!!!
your aunt Montez's algebra class

#287 | 05/15/2008, 12:02 pm, EDT | Janet

I work alongside Carmen's PT who encouraged her coworkers to visit your website. I believe that your hope of Carmen knowing that she is loved has come to fruition. Carmen is such a lovely little girl who is so blessed to have you as parents and to have Lauren as a delightful big sister! Thank you for sharing your story of courage and hope. I will keep you in my prayers.

#286 | 05/15/2008, 8:53 am, EDT | Julie

Dave and Lana,
I just watched the video... It was done so beautifully. Just know I'm praying for you and for little Carmen.
Julie

#285 | 05/14/2008, 4:25 pm, EDT | New York Grandma

I cannot say enough positive things about your insurance company and your case worker. She is an absolute gem and a true gift from God. The most amazing/miraculous thing is that you have not had to fight with them - as so many who are asking for so much less have to do. What a blessing! Are we allowed to post the name of your company? Maybe others who have choices can support them with their business - - -
God is truly taking care of you (Carmen and family) in every way! How awesome!!! - your pediatric group and Carmen's "head" pediatrician, the medical director at the insurance company, and the phenomenal support group you have surrounding - - what blessings they all are!

#284 | 05/14/2008, 9:57 am, EDT | Sarah

Awesome video, so touching and heartbreaking. Praying for you! Sarah

#283 | 05/13/2008, 10:51 pm, EDT | Bonnie Davis

That is wonderful news about the nursing care. You must have great insurance! It is uncommon for insurance to cover hourly nursing. I also just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you. I do agree that Mother's Day is so bittersweet for so many of us. We make it through, though, and count our blessings. Bonnie Reply written by Dave Coddington at 05/13/2008, 11:25 pm, EDT

Bonnie,
We do have very good insurance through my current employer. What is particularly amazing about it is that I took my current job just two months before we finalized our adoption of Carmen. Prior to then, I was an independent contractor with individual insurance through BCBS (OK but not great).

Funny thing is...I REALLY hesitated to take this job. I loved being an independent contractor and didn't HAVE to take it.

It's easy for me to say this now, looking back, but this is really true. At the time, Lana and I felt that God was providing this job so that we could simplify our lives a little bit, particularly with another child about to join our family.

He had this planned. He took care of all the details. He continues to take care of us today! Praise be to our wonderful and indescribable God!!

#282 | 05/13/2008, 10:16 pm, EDT | Cristie Good

Lana & Dave,
Hooray for the Hospice care! Prayers are being heard and answered. Thank you Lord! I'll continue to pray for y'all.

#281 | 05/13/2008, 2:57 pm, EDT | Bev Forman

Your aunt Ruthanne was here visiting me yesterday and told me about Carmen and your family. She asked me to put you on my prayer list. I also know Doug and Grace from church and remembered when we were praying about the adoption. I asked my girlfriend Shirley in Dublin, Texas, to put you on their prayer chain. I am praying for Carmen and your family. I am on hospice with cancer and would like to be on your prayer chain.

#280 | 05/13/2008, 10:38 am, EDT | Becky Warren

...I meant to also say, Rest In Peace, Angel ^Samuel^...
Love,
Becky

#279 | 05/13/2008, 10:35 am, EDT | Becky Warren

It sure does sound like you enjoyed a special Mother's Day, Carmen. I'm happy to hear about it - you deserve a day of fun and pampering from Lauren! :-)
Gosh, how incredibly scary for Carmen and for all of you... I am so thankful that she is okay. Please give her a big hug and a kiss for me.

My ^Grama^ had to use oxygen and a canula for several years before she passed, so I know that they can be tricky, especially if something is not set up quite as it should be.

Anyhoo, I hope you are all well. Take care of yourselves, and please be in touch.

Love,
Becky

http://smee-2008.blogspot.com

#278 | 05/12/2008, 6:06 pm, EDT | Becky

I've visited your blog a few times and I have to say I think you and your husband are so strong. I get goose bumps when I read your updates. You are always in my thoughts and prayers!

#277 | 05/12/2008, 5:44 pm, EDT | Barbara Duesler

Hi Dave and Lana, I met you when you came to the Presbyterian Church in Cherry Valley with Doug and Grace. I read your updates often and wanted you to know that you are all in my prayers every day. Hugs to al of you.

#276 | 05/12/2008, 12:33 pm, EDT | Aunt Montez

Hi Lana and Dave!
Wishing you the very best for dealing with your future. You and your family are on our prayer list at church and have been for some time. We love all of you.
Love
Aunt Montez

#275 | 05/11/2008, 10:43 pm, EDT | Dad

I know you're a great mom. Lauren and Carmen are blessed! I miss you all.

#274 | 05/11/2008, 12:49 pm, EDT | Laurie ten Berge

Hi Lana, I hope you are having a wonderful Mother's Day! Wishing you the best, Laurie (Big Elise's mommy)

#273 | 05/10/2008, 8:15 pm, EDT | Aunt Ruthanne

Hey guys,
Thanks for having me over. It is so wonderful to be with you all. Lauren is sooooo much fun and it makes me feel so good that she likes having come and play with her, too. The Lord has promised to be with you all and will have glory for all that He is doing with and for you all. He is magnificent, able to do miracles of all sorts - He turns our "mistakes" into "just the way it had to be" and promises to do and be all that we can't. I love spending time with you. Now I know it was perfect when I told Grace that since I have no children and she has 4, that she would have to share you with me, to even things out in our family. Lucky me!! I am so blessed having you in my life.
Love ya all,
Aunt Ruthanne

#272 | 05/09/2008, 3:02 pm, EDT | Oralea

I just read your last two updates and they touched me deeply. I am sorry your insurance won't cover both Hospice and nursing - we are going through the same issue right now and I understand your exhaustion and time needed with Lauren. I often think Kyla gets not enough attention too. I am still working on trying to find a way to get both Hospice and nursing at the same time and if I find a loop hole, I will let you know. We will continue to pray for you. I know we only met briefly in Tampa but I saw that you are such an incredible family and Carmen is so fortunate to have you. Sending our love, Oralea (William'smommy)

#271 | 05/08/2008, 10:36 pm, EDT | Laurie (Salo) Spivey

I just wanted you to know that I read your updates regularly. I have shared your story with my MOPS group here in TX. You are an inspiration to numerous people you have never met. I wish there weren't so many miles between us so I could help out with chores, babysitting, etc. I think of you and pray for you often.

#270 | 05/08/2008, 12:14 pm, EDT | Texas Grandma

Hi Lauren, Did you get your hair cut? I'm sure it looks great!! Will you please send me a picture so I can see how it looks? Please give Carmen a big hug for me. I love you both.......Grandma

#269 | 05/08/2008, 11:07 am, EDT | wendy lane

hi lana + dave, i just got caught up on your entries since I saw you last lana. i just wanted to tell you again how much i'm praying for you. please call me anytime if i can help in anyway. love, wendy

#268 | 05/08/2008, 12:13 am, EDT | Bridget Jordan

Hi Lana, Dave, Lauren and Carmen. I wanted to let you know you guys have been and continue to be in my daily prayers. I have dealt with pneumonia so many times with Molly so I know how scared you are. Even though Molly has not been healed of Tay-Sach's God has brought her through so many times, by recovering so smoothly with no medical explaination how she did it. I will also be praying for the nursing thing to work out. How I would love to have night nursing care, it would make things so much easier to get a good nights rest. Big hugs to you all.

#267 | 05/07/2008, 9:44 pm, EDT | Liz

Thanks, Lana. Love to all...

#266 | 05/07/2008, 5:19 pm, EDT | Tina Lutz

We have been watching the Florida healing revival/outpouring every night at church and have been seeing/feeling the power of God. People have experienced some incredible miracles, and we love watching the testimonies! People are getting healed of cerebal palsy, paralysis, MS, Hepatitis C, deafness, blindness and much more! It's renewed my faith again. I want to see miracles in Carmen's life! I'm praying that she laugh, talk, walk and get to eat a peanut butter & jelly sandwich! (or maybe a soy butter & jelly sandwich!) You can watch the revival live at god.tv or freshfire.ca. Love you all!

#265 | 05/06/2008, 5:56 pm, EDT | Laurie ten Berge

I am sorry that you haven't been approved for nursing care and Hospice. I do remember that Susan (who spoke at the conference) said there are ways "around it." Hopefully, you've already gotten in touch with Bonnie and you have some ideas about how to do it. It would be hard to give up your sleep at night, I know. I hope the new antibiotic is working for Carmen. She has been on my mind since we spoke last week. I hope you had fun playing Polly Pockets today. Sending you love and support, Laurie (Elise's mommy)

#264 | 05/06/2008, 9:29 am, EDT | Melody

Lana and Dave,
So sorry that Carmen continues to be ill. Praying for you continously!!
Melody

#263 | 05/06/2008, 1:12 am, EDT | Bonnie Davis

Hi Lana and Dave,
We met briefly at the NTSAD conference in Tampa. My son's Hospice nurse, Susan, was one of the speakers. I'm sorry I don't remember what state you live in, but there is a way to get both Hospice and full-time nursing care for Carmen. PLEASE, PLEASE contact me. I live in Oregon: 503-645-0355 or bonnie.226@comcast.net. I can help you get started with the process. Please call or email any time. My thoughts are with all of you. Bonnie

#262 | 05/05/2008, 11:08 pm, EDT | Shannon

I found your site through a.com also and visit alot. You and your family are our prayers...my son, age almost 8, prays every night for your sweet Carmen....and I pray for her as well as praying for strength for you all. Please know that someone in Missouri is in your corner!

#261 | 05/05/2008, 10:44 pm, EDT | Indira Thomas

Lana,
So often I seem to not be able to find the words to tell you what I see when I am with you at Bible Study. When I watch you or Dave sit, holding Carmen, and I see her body melting into yours absolutely trusting in your love. . . I skip a breath. Your love demonstrates so much of what love truly means. . .sacrifice, pain, tenderness, joy and strength to endure. Carmen and Lauren are so fortunate to have you as parents. My family and I are so fortunate to know you and be friends with you. We are praying for you every day!
Love, Indira

#260 | 05/05/2008, 10:06 pm, EDT | nancy

Our hearts go out to you. We, too, want to keep Ryan (24 months old) home with us to the very end. You have done such a beautiful job with Carmen and Laren, and your testimony is heard across the nation. All our love, Nancy, Jeremy and family

#259 | 05/05/2008, 9:16 pm, EDT | Virginia Coddington

Dear Lana & Dave-I want you to know that I am praying for you every day & think of you so often during the day-I love you lots & little lauren & of course, Carmen. I know God is taking care of all of you & giving you the strength you need-Love, Grandma

#258 | 05/05/2008, 12:30 am, EDT | Diana

I found your blog from A.com post. Your beautiful Carmen makes my heart melt. I am so glad she is your daughter and has gotten to be a part of a family that loves her so much. We pray for her and for all of you. I have told my whole family about your story, strength and amazing spirit. My heart aches for Carmen and I hope and pray with all of my heart that she is not in pain. Sending good thoughts, prayer and BIG HUGS!
D in California

#257 | 05/04/2008, 11:19 pm, EDT | Angie E

Hi, it's me - Snickerdoodle. I've been checking in regularly ever since I got your email.

#256 | 05/04/2008, 8:59 pm, EDT | New York Grandma

Praise the Lord!!! Debt-free!! What an accomplishment, especially considering the ENORMOUS school debt the two of you had. We are proud of you both for getting and keeping your priorities straight and always seeking to put God first as you seek His will in everything.
Can't wait to see you all - looking forward to hearing you speak - wish Charlotte could be there, too.

Thank you, also, for keeping us in the loop and asking our opinions about things. You have truly honored your parents in ways you will never understand until you are old and in our position!! You continually bless us with your love, respect, and thoughtfulness!!

#255 | 05/03/2008, 10:43 pm, EDT | Rachael Hopkins

Mom gave me this web site months ago and I have been checking in from time to time. I do admire you for your courage and faith. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

#254 | 05/03/2008, 10:16 pm, EDT | Helen Brewer

I am so sorry that Carmen is sick, I read the updates ritually to check up on her. This is all so unfair, my heartbreaks at the thought of what is happening to her and to all of the children affected by these diseases.

Enough of that, here is some information I found on pediatric hospice care, if it helps. Montgomery County doesn't seem to pediatric hospice. But this may help.

I hope to see you guys soon, maybe next week. Again, don't hesitate to call me if you need anything.

Community Hospice of Maryland
9940 Franklin Square Drive
Baltimore, MD 21236
(866) 234-7742 (toll free)
Map and directions
URL: http://www.communityhospices.org/region_md/i...
Community Hospices
9940 Franklin Square Drive, Suite K
White Marsh, MD 21236
(866) 234-7742 (toll-free)

Description: Provides adult and pediatric hospice care in Maryland in homes, assisted living facilities, nursing homes, or wherever the patient resides.

Helen

#253 | 05/03/2008, 3:14 pm, EDT | Lauren

I am Lauren, Carmen's sister. I love her very much too. My sister loves me too. I love my mommy and she loves me. And I also (hee, hee, hee) love my daddy and he loves me. That's it.

#252 | 05/03/2008, 11:15 am, EDT | Natalie

Hi Lana!
My name is Natalie and I found your blog a few weeks ago through a.com. I am Nattyloo there. we brought our precious daughter home from Guatemala on year ago today. I try to check in here every fews days and pray for God's will in Carmen's and your family's life.

Natalie

#251 | 05/03/2008, 9:09 am, EDT | Laurie ten Berge

Thinking about you and hoping that Carmen is feeling better. Love, Laurie (Big Elise's mommy)

#250 | 05/02/2008, 8:44 pm, EDT | Chrsitina Gerwinat

I am so sad to hear that Carmen is sick again, especially with the possibility of pnemonia. That is so scary considering how difficult it is for her to breathe normally. Praide God about the lease extension though! I can't imagine how much a burden was lifted off of your shoulders with that one!You continue to have my daily prayers. I know that it must be extremely difficult to think that you have so little time left with Carmen, but God has had this planned since the beginning of time so I encourage you to keep putting your faith in Him and His perfect plan for your family. I will continue to read your blog faithfully to see how you all are doing. Sorry I've never posted a message before! I should have been more thoughtful. Love, Christina from The Land Down Under

#249 | 05/02/2008, 4:27 pm, EDT | Debbie

We pray for your family everyday. Thank you so much for sharing your journey. You have changed my life. We will lift up Carmen in a special prayer tonight.
God Bless, Debbie

#248 | 05/02/2008, 2:13 pm, EDT | Sarah Alford

Sorry to hear that Carmen is so sick. Hopefully you will get all of the benefits of hospice care, and Carmen will live for 3 or 4 more years.

#247 | 05/02/2008, 12:05 pm, EDT | Sara Modi

I meant to write that Lana I do not have your phone number. I would love to bring you guys dinner one night this weekend or next week. If you get a chance give me a call 301-926-2798.
Sara

#246 | 05/02/2008, 11:59 am, EDT | Sara Modi

Poor little Carmen. I hope she gets better soon and doesn't end up back at Shady Grove. Thinking of you all.
Sara Modi

#245 | 05/02/2008, 11:38 am, EDT | Oralea Marquardt

Keeping you in our prayers and hoping Carmen gets better soon. Oralea (William's mommy)

#244 | 05/02/2008, 11:34 am, EDT | Karla Jones

I just got your web site from Laurie ten Berge's update page. It was a pleasure to meet your beautiful family at the conference. Franci was my daughter Emily's caregiver, and I saw how drawn she was to Carmen. I enjoyed reading your story, what an adventure you have been through and you are on. I hope Carmen is comfortable and can come home soon.
Karla Jones

#243 | 05/02/2008, 11:19 am, EDT | lori

Dear Lana and Dave,
I adopted my daughter Emma from Guatemala in 2003 and post on the Fertile Thoughts board. I check in often on Carmen (and all of you) and I am so sorry to hear that she is not feeling well. She, and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers often.

I noticed that we were Disney World almost the same time last month. We arrived 4/1. I believe you were already heading home. It would have been nice to meet all of you.

Praying for all of you, especially beautiful Carmen.

Lori

#242 | 05/02/2008, 9:46 am, EDT | Rashmi

Lana and Dave,
I am so sorry Carmen is sick again. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day.
(ps : Leela is telling me to type HELLO to Lauren and Carmen)
xoxo
rashmi

#241 | 05/02/2008, 9:34 am, EDT | Laurie ten Berge

I am sorry to hear that Carmen is sick again. I will be thinking about all of you and hoping that she doesn't have to go back to the hospital. Love, Laurie (Big Elise's mommy)

#240 | 05/02/2008, 12:26 am, EDT | Dad/Nancy

Father in Heaven knows what is best for Carmen and all of you and I'm confident, as we know you are, that He will act upon that always. We're keeping you in our prayers.
Love,

Dad

#239 | 05/01/2008, 11:27 pm, EDT | Jenn

I check for updates everyday. I keep your family in my prayers. I hope Carmen gets to feeling better. I am so sorry for your news, I cannot pretend to understand how you feel but do know that there are many people pulling for her.

#238 | 05/01/2008, 7:49 pm, EDT | Dorie

I read your blog faithfully to see how Carmen is doing after seeing your post several months ago on adoption.com. I keep your family in my prayers.

#237 | 05/01/2008, 6:09 pm, EDT | Michelle

Found your link through adoption.com. Praying for you in Tennessee.

#236 | 05/01/2008, 4:54 pm, EDT | ellie

Hi Lana...
I have signed before and left a few messages. But, I faithful check in to see how you, dave and the kiddos are doing.

You are an insperation, and I share your story with my family, and now have them all following it.

Hugs to you all
Ellie

#235 | 05/01/2008, 2:43 pm, EDT | Texas Grandma

Yes, New York Grandma, I totally agree with you. I am so very grateful to all those who minister to Dave, Lana, and the girls, and I love to be able to read all about what they are doing.

#234 | 05/01/2008, 1:14 pm, EDT | Melody

Lana and Dave,
I found your blog on the A.com forum and I check it at least a couple of times a week. I pray for you often and have put Carmen on the prayer list at my church. I hope that Carmen is feeling better. Melody

#233 | 05/01/2008, 11:22 am, EDT | Monica Gettleman

Hi Lana,
It was wonderful to meet you, Dave, Lauren and Carmen at the conference. I'm so glad you were in Tampa and had the chance to connect with the other families of NTSAD.
Thinking of you,
Monica Gettleman

#232 | 05/01/2008, 9:06 am, EDT | Sarah

Hello! I posted a long time ago, but wanted you to know that I read your blog at least once a week to see how Carmen is doing as well as the rest of your family. I learned about your family through Rashmi Pappu who did our maternity & newborn pics last summer. My heart goes out to you and I am in awe at what wonderful and Godly parents you are and how you are glorifying God even in the most difficult circumstances of life.
I have a link to your site from my blog so that maybe other people can learn about Carmen and keep you all in their prayers. Hope that's okay, but if not, feel free to let me know!
You're all in my prayers - Sarah #231 | 05/01/2008, 8:54 am, EDT | Laurie ten Berge That was supposed to say, "it was nice to talk to you the other night."

#230 | 05/01/2008, 8:53 am, EDT | Laurie ten Berge

Good news about the extension of your lease. That is a big relief for sure! It was nice to you the other night. Please call anytime. Kisses to Carmen, Laurie (Big Elise's mommy)

#229 | 04/30/2008, 10:22 pm, EDT | Oralea Marquardt

I am so glad that Carmen is home and that you are able to get more nursing care to help out - what a blessing. Keeping you in our prayers, Oralea (William's mommy)

#228 | 04/30/2008, 9:41 pm, EDT | Donna

I brought home my son from Guatemala just a couple of months before you brought home Carmen. I've been following your journal for awhile. I'm so glad Carmen is doing better and is home. You're all in my prayers.

#227 | 04/30/2008, 8:17 pm, EDT | Dad/Nancy

Lana, I and/or Nancy read the Updates and Guestbook almost every day. Sometimes Katie looks at them too!

#226 | 04/30/2008, 7:58 pm, EDT | Sara Modi

I am so glad to hear that Carmen is home from the hospital. I'm sure the extra hours of the nurse will be a huge help. If you feel up to it we would love to see you guys. Take Care.
Sara Modi

#225 | 04/30/2008, 5:57 pm, EDT | wendy

i was just reminded to check your blog because i was eating the Moroccan meatballs that you shared the recipe for earlier and was thinking and praying for you. i always leave reading your entries with a mixture of sadness and joy - you are an amazing family and your faith in God and your beautiful attitudes is a huge encouragement and challenge to me! I pray OFTEN for you all.

#224 | 04/30/2008, 5:52 pm, EDT | New York Grandma

OK - I confess - I do check the site every day, even though we talk often (especially on "Idol" nights!!). However, I must add that reading your updates gives me information that we sometimes don't talk about - I especially enjoy hearing about those you mention who have done such thoughtful things. (They need to know how grateful WE are that they are there to minister to you when we are so far away.) SO - - keep those updates up-to-date for ALL of us!! :)
Also, it means a lot to us (the grandparents - and I think I speak for Charlotte and Larry, also) to see the notes in the guest book that remind us of the many people whoare keeping our family in their prayers - - none of you (bloggers) will ever know what your support and encouragement means to us. I pray God will specially bless you all for taking the time to lift us up!

#223 | 04/30/2008, 5:38 pm, EDT | Shelly

I found your blog through adoption.com. My husband and I have a 21 month old son from Guatemala.
I pray for your precious Carmen.

#222 | 04/30/2008, 3:29 pm, EDT | dawnz:)

Thanks for drawing me out of lurkdom. :) I have followed Carmen's story on a.com all the way back from when she first came home until now. I love reading about how this little peanut has touched your lives and how your love for her never wavers. You are an amazing family and I thank-you for sharing your heart and your lives with this reader.
d:)

#221 | 04/30/2008, 1:40 pm, EDT | Martina

Lana and Dave-
I am so sorry to hear that Carmen was in the hospital again. I am glad to hear that she is back home and that you now have a nurse staying longer to help in the pm. All 3 of my kids have been sick since last Wed. with a stomach virus, double ear infections, and a flu like virus. We will keep Carmen in our prayers for feeling better quickly. Once all 3 of my kids are well and Carmen is well we should get together. I cannot wait for you to meet Joseline and I know Lauren will enjoy playing with both Ella and Joseline.

Take care,
Martina

#220 | 04/30/2008, 1:04 pm, EDT | Joy Stein

Hi Lana- I read it every few days just to catch up on how Carmen is doing. Joy Stein

#219 | 04/30/2008, 11:01 am, EDT | Dorothy

My husband and I adopted our daughter from Guatemala, and I learned about your family on the Adoption.com forum. I check your blog frequently to see how Carmen is doing, and I'm constantly amazed and awed by your strength and faith.

#218 | 04/30/2008, 10:48 am, EDT | Tina Lutz

I ran downstairs last week and said, "Mom, we made it on the blog!" Lana, you do a great job of thanking everyone for everything. Thanks for sharing your journey with us. You have an army of support standing behind you and beside you--in the natural and in the spirit. I love you all! I'm praying for you.

#217 | 04/30/2008, 10:06 am, EDT | The Fabbro Family

Our family follows your family's journey as a result of Adoption.com We are a Michigan family with two children born in Guatemala. The four of you are a blessing to us all. Your strength and faith are amazing. We so appreciate you sharing and giving us the ability to help through prayers. Hugs to each of you.
Take care,
Rhonda

#216 | 04/30/2008, 7:30 am, EDT | The Jones Family

We have followed your journey closely through the forums and this site. Please know that you are all in our prayers daily.

#215 | 04/28/2008, 9:32 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

Oh gee, I'm sorry to see that you are in the hospital Carmen! My love and prayers are with you and your entire family! God Bless You, Beautiful.
I meant to write yesterday. One month ago yesterday we were all getting settled in Tampa. Can you believe it? (Did we meet on the first day of the Conference? ...I think it was the second day...)

Love you all,
Becky

#214 | 04/28/2008, 4:31 pm, EDT | Aunt Trish

We are praying as always. I'm sorry that Carmen is in the hospital again so soon. I wish we were there to help.

#213 | 04/28/2008, 3:28 pm, EDT | Shirley Baxter

I work @ Sears in Lufkin Mall and met Carmen's grandmother there. We are praying for Carmen and the whole family and will stand with you in believing for her well being. My husband and I pray all will be well and Carmen will go home soon. Shirley Baxter (Sears)

#212 | 04/28/2008, 11:16 am, EDT | Laurie ten Berge

I am sorry to hear that Carmen is in the hospital. We used to have the same problems when we used Albuterol with Elise. Now, we only use it for occasional wheezing. I hope that Carmen is feeling better and comes home very soon. Thinking of you and sending you MRSA-free kisses, Laurie (Elise's mommy)

#211 | 04/28/2008, 9:44 am, EDT | Dad/Nancy

You're always in our prayers, especially today.

#210 | 04/27/2008, 4:44 pm, EDT | CF and Indira Thomas

We're praying that Carmen's reaction to the antibiotic will subside soon. We also pray that everone will get some good rest in the next few days!
We love you,
CF & Indira

#209 | 04/25/2008, 4:19 pm, EDT | Nicki Luce

I totally agree with Sarah's comments. Our little girls have made such a tremendous impact on our lives. We will be forever changed because of them. They are heaven sent ~ special angels that we're given to us for a little while and all they will ever know is love. I hope to hear in your next update that Carmen is alright and nothing serious is going on. I'm glad you got The Vest, it is wonderful. Hugs & kisses to your princesses. Take care, Nicki (Riley's Mommy)

#208 | 04/25/2008, 1:20 pm, EDT | Sarah Alford

Isn't it amazing how something you never would have chosen in a million years can be the greatest blessing God ever gave you. I guess we're not as smart as we think we are. Carmen is so lucky to have been adopted by such loving parents. Hope she feels better very soon.
Take care, Sarah

#207 | 04/25/2008, 8:42 am, EDT | Laurie ten Berge

I hope that everything goes well with Carmen's doctor appointment. I'll be thinking about her and hoping she's not getting sick again. Yay for the Vest! It's amazing that your insurance company has approved it already. I'm glad that you've been having good results with the Phenobarb and Robinul. One thing I've learned with any of these meds that dry secretions is that they can also cause constipation - so just keep an eye out for that. Like you said, it's all a juggling act. I wish a magic cleaning fairy would come to my house. It is wonderful that you have such a nice and supportive group of friends. Sending kisses to Miss Carmen, Laurie (Big Elise's mommy)

#206 | 04/21/2008, 3:46 pm, EDT | Liz Warren

Hi, don't remember the name of Becky's novel but mine is called ''Redemption'' by Kingsbury and Smally. It's my first Christian novel.
How are Carmen and Lauren? Miss you all!

#205 | 04/19/2008, 12:39 pm, EDT | Dad and Nancy

Hoping for an update on Carmen, Lauren and the two of you...
We met two young ladies from Guatemala. Wednesday, the plant lady at Hare's nursery said she had just moved to Arlington from Guatemala. She doesn't have a church so we got her address and phone number and sent it to Leslie Reyes-Chinchilla. Leslie has been praying for Carmen since August. He is leader of our Home Teams, teaches at a college and moved here from Guatemala about 10 years ago. Leslie's brother Jose' was a MD in Guatemala and works as a PA in Fort Worth. We have three families from Guatemala in our church and they always ask how is Carmen?

We continue to pray daily for the four of you. Our love, Dad and Nancy

#204 | 04/18/2008, 4:12 pm, EDT | Laurie ten Berge

Hoping that you are all doing well. Sending kisses to Miss Carmen today. All my best, Laurie (Big Elise's mommy)

#203 | 04/16/2008, 9:40 am, EDT | Becca

Thanks so much for the updates, Lana! What wonderful memories you made. The support you received at that conference was priceless. I'm so glad you went. I like your plan to live life to the fullest together. Lauren will benefit from this too. Love you so much!

#202 | 04/15/2008, 10:11 am, EDT | Granddad

Lauren and Carmen, I love you!

#201 | 04/14/2008, 9:34 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

Sounds like your trip was WONDERFUL - I am so glad! Lauren, GOOD JOB sounding out "Magic Kingdom". You are very smart.
And since you ironically mentioned Boston, will you be planning to come to next year's Conference? :-)

Take care, my new friends!
Love,
Becky

http://www.smee-2008.blogspot.com

#200 | 04/14/2008, 7:49 pm, EDT | Liz Warren

Carmen,
I love you!

#199 | 04/13/2008, 7:36 pm, EDT | Dad and Nancy

Today, we passed out a picture and message about Carmen. Our friends at Parks Springs Bible Church-Arlington TX have been praying for the four of you since we returned from our visit in August. Our Bible class teacher , Skip Leffler led the class in a special prayer for Carmen and each of you, today. We continue to pray for endurance and wisdom for you and peaceful breathing for Carmen. We hope to hear how she and you all are doing.

#198 | 04/11/2008, 8:00 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

Hi, Everybody!
Hope yours is a great Friday! So glad that sweet Carmen has returned to her "normal"!

Love to all,
Becky

http://www.smee-2008.blogspot.com

#197 | 04/10/2008, 7:51 pm, EDT | Betsy Harman

Dear Dave and Lana and Lauren and Carmen,
You are such a blessing! It's beautiful to see God's hand in your life through this journey. Please know you are on my heart and in my prayers.

Love,
Betsy Harman
(Campus Crusade for Christ)

#196 | 04/10/2008, 6:44 pm, EDT | Bridget Jordan

Wow! I am glad I stopped my busy schedule to finally check on all of the kids today. I had no idea Carman has been so sick. I usually check on all them daily, but this last semester of school has kept me so busy. Im glad she is feeling better. Molly is a loud breather most of the time. I use to have a hard time going to sleep because she made so much noise, now I have a hard time going to sleep if I can't hear her breathe. Its funny how you get use to things.
Im glad you had such a nice experience at the conference, even though I know it is heartbreaking. I will pray that Carman keeps improving and gets over all that crazy breathing real quick.

#195 | 04/10/2008, 4:57 pm, EDT | Jennifer and Lilie

Just stopping in to say hello. Our daughter has GM1 gangliosidosis and it too has been a long and very difficult journey. I hope that you are all doing well and please know that we will be thinking of you and sending many prayers as well.
God bless,
Jen and lilie

#194 | 04/10/2008, 1:32 pm, EDT | Bonnie

Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you today and continue to pray. I loved reading about your trip to Disney! Glad you all had a wonderful trip.
Peace,
Bonnie

#193 | 04/08/2008, 10:50 pm, EDT | Dad

It's so good to read about how Carmen has improved and about the great time you had at Disney World. We all appreciate the updates!

#192 | 04/08/2008, 11:59 am, EDT | Melody (mama to 1 guatling)

Lana, I continue to pray for you and your family. I've been asking my church family to pray for you all also. You are doing an amazing job keeping positive in the face of all that is going on.

#191 | 04/07/2008, 8:59 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

Your latest update is fabulous!
I didn't know that Stephen lives 10 minutes from you... does he have a website, by chance?

Also, I think it's wonderful what Bryan's parents offered, and that you put an album together. Reading this exchange nearly gave me goosebumps! :)

I am so glad that Carmen is home and doing so much better! Thank goodness!

Love,
Becky

#190 | 04/07/2008, 4:26 pm, EDT | Nicki (Riley's Mommy)

I was sorry to hear that Carmen has been sick and the hospital but so very glad to hear she's now back at home and doing much, much better. We've been kind of "out of the loop" since our return from Florida. Now that life seems to be back to "normal", I wanted to drop by to say how wonderful it was to meet you, Dave and sweet little Carmen. She is just adorable! I am very honored to have been able to meet her in person. I hope she continues on the path of good health. I will certainly keep you all in our prayers, and close to our hearts! Hugs, Nicki

#189 | 04/07/2008, 10:46 am, EDT | Helen

Dear Lana and Dave,
I just want to let you know that we are thinking about you and that Carmen and your entire family is in our hearts. I know this is a really scary time, but I hope that you realize that Carmen is so fortunate to have such amazing parents and a wonderful little sister.
We are just around the corner, so if there is anything you need or would like for us to do, please do not hesitate to contact us. We really mean it.

Helen, Athos and Stephen

#188 | 04/07/2008, 10:42 am, EDT | Magen

I am so sorry to hear about your little girl. You are a wonderful and beautiful family and God had a plan for your family and brought your Carmen. I hope that all of your days together are filled with love and laughter.
My prayers will be with your family.
Magen (mommy to 2 little guys from Guatemala.)

#187 | 04/06/2008, 8:33 pm, EDT | Oralea Marquardt

I am so sorry to hear that Carmen is ill. I hope she recovers quickly from the RSV. It was so nice to meet you in Tampa and we will continue to keep you in our prayers. Thinking of you, Oralea (William's mommy)
www.carepages.com sitename:WilliamJM

#186 | 04/06/2008, 7:37 pm, EDT | Joanne

I am Brooke's mum, I read on Charles's page that Carmen is sick. I truly hope she gets better soon, these diseases are so nasty but our children are the best little warriors and whatever, whenever, however, they will win their battle. Sending Carmen lots of strength and hugs...XOXO

#185 | 04/06/2008, 5:07 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

Hi Lana,
How is beautiful Carmen today?

Love and Prayers to all,
Becky

#184 | 04/06/2008, 3:45 pm, EDT | Liz Warren

Prayers!

#183 | 04/06/2008, 3:06 pm, EDT | Anna (Charle Anderson's Sissy)

Hello everyone.. I hope that Carmen is starting to improve. It was so nice to meet you and get to hold Carmen for a little while at the conference.

#182 | 04/05/2008, 2:20 am, EDT | Mindy

I am so, so sorry to hear that Carmen has RSV. I am sure this is just so scary for you. I am glad she is getting the care that she needs and that she seems to be feeling better. There are so many people that pray for all of you daily, including me. So many of us are deeply touched by your story. Many hugs and prayers to all of you. Sweet Carmen~I pray the Lord strengthens your body so you are able to come home soon! You are such a sweet and beautiful blessing.

#181 | 04/04/2008, 8:30 pm, EDT | Suzie Warren

Hello Lana and Family - so sorry to hear that your precious girl is in the hospital. I'm praying for her to get better, and home - quick! I read about you on Isaiah's CB site - I'm a long time friend of his Grandma, Paula. Your site is lovely and your baby girl is so beautiful! I'll keep you all in my prayers.
Love and prayers from Missouri -
Suzie Warren

#180 | 04/04/2008, 1:45 pm, EDT | Mary Cairns (Isaiah's Mommy)

Hello, Lana and Carmen, Lauren and Dave, too! I just finally got onto your website and read all of the stories and cried and laughed all the way through. This is the most beautiful website I have ever seen, I would like to have one like this for Isaiah. Caring Bridge is great but you can only do so much on it. I am so sad to hear that Carmen is sick. I am praying hard for her. I have always wanted to adopt; my mom and my aunt were both adopted and I think it is such an awesome gift to give to a child who needs love and hope in their life. My husband doesn't feel the same as I do but he's not completely opposed. I hope God will help change his mind. Your story has touched me so deeply. I hope to become great friends with you and your family. God bless you all!

#179 | 04/04/2008, 10:57 am, EDT | Valerie Fraedrich

Dave and Lana -
You are each daily on my mind and in my prayers... and ever in my heart.

Love,
Valerie

#178 | 04/04/2008, 1:37 am, EDT | Martina

Lana and Dave-
I am so sorry that Carmen is in the hospital. We are praying for Carmen to get better soon. Lana-I posted on the adoption.com board for people to pray for Carmen, you, Dave and Lauren. When you have a moment check the adoption.com board and read all the prayers. I knew you needed all the prayers that you could get, so I posted on the board asking for prayers. So many people are praying for Carmen to get better and for God to continue to give your family strength to get through these tough times.
I am praying for you all and for Carmen to come home soon.

Lana-I will be traveling to Guatemala on 4/13 to pick up Joseline, and once Carmen is well maybe we can get together.

Martina, Bob, Ella, Nicklaus and Joseline

#177 | 04/04/2008, 12:29 am, EDT | Isaiah's dad--matthew

I'm sorry to hear your daughter is ill. I pray she will be comfortable through this rough time. I read most of your story, and it is very touching. Your life has been filled with ups and downs it seems. Although my life differs, it too has seen its share of ups and downs. I have managed to make it through the lows by always reminding myself that an up was soon to come. It is harder these days to believe myself, but I keep on saying it. I am truly being carried by Jesus at this point in my life. Please know He is there for your family as well.

#176 | 04/03/2008, 10:02 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

I am sorry to hear that Carmen is suddenly in the hospital. I pray that you are doing better now and on your way back to health. You and your loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers, Carmen! We believe in you!!
Love, and JUSTBELIEVE,
Becky Warren

#175 | 04/03/2008, 9:58 pm, EDT | Liz Warren

Carmen and family,
It was an honor to meet you and hope you get well soon!

Love,
Liz

#174 | 04/03/2008, 6:19 pm, EDT | Dad

We continue to pray for the Lord's wisdom, strength and endurance to help you finish the race set before you! Please let us know how Carmen and Lauren are today. We love each of you. Our Heavenly Father who knows all things will not leave you or forsake you in your time of need. With love and prayers,
Dad and Nancy

#173 | 04/03/2008, 4:30 am, EDT | jennifer

Lana and family, Please know that our family is praying for Carmen to come home soon and that you and your family will have the strength to endure yet another setback. Jenn

#172 | 04/03/2008, 12:54 am, EDT | Jaime

While I do not know your family, Martina posted on adoption forum about your family needing prayers. Our family will be praying for yours. God Bless you all.

#171 | 04/02/2008, 9:10 pm, EDT | Sara Modi

Lana and Dave,
I just saw the message on adoption.com and I am so sorry to hear that Carmen is in the hospital. I can't imagine how stressful this all is for you. I lost your regular email address so that is why I am emailing you on this. Just know that I am right around the corner and even though we haven't seen each other in awhile I think about you and check your blog every day. Please let me know if there is anything at all that I can do. I will be praying that little Carmen will be home soon.

#170 | 04/02/2008, 3:17 pm, EDT | Texas Grandma

I just talked to Lana and was told that Carmen is in the hospital. Lana took her to a doctor this morning and she was having such difficulty breathing that they had her taken by ambulance to the hospital. They said she has RSV which is an acute respiratory virus and she will be in the hospital from 2 to 10 days. This virus is highly contagious so she will only have a roommate who also has RSV. Please pray that she will not have a roommate as it's so much easier for them without one. Carmen is at a local hospital and hopefully will not have to be transferred to Children's. They just returned from their trip to the Tay Sachs conference last night around midnight so please pray for stamina. They are very tired. Please pray for God's grace to cover every need during this difficult time.

#169 | 04/01/2008, 8:33 pm, EDT | Becky Warren

Hello Carmen, Lauren, Lana, and Dave,
It was so very nice meeting you this weekend at the Conference! Your site is so calming and peaceful looking, and very informative. Thank you for sharing it with us!

Stay in touch! Carmen, stay healthy, beautiful girl, you are loved so much.

Hugs, Your Friend,
Becky Warren

#168 | 03/30/2008, 9:12 pm, EDT | Bridget Jordan

Hi Lana and Dave, I really wish I could have met you guys, but I had to do what was best for the children. Im sure all of you were really thanking me for not bringing Molly's germs in. I know right now you probably have so many emotions you feel like you could burst but I pray that you learned some valuable information from the conference. I know it is so hard to see the progression of the disease but if only all children were as loved as those kids you met the world would be so much brighter. Im sure that we will get to meet next year and until then please know I think of you guys often and pray for many good days for Carmen.

#167 | 03/25/2008, 6:49 am, EDT | jennifer

I am so sorry for what your daughter and family are going through. You have shown great faith in the face of adversity. Please contact me, I have a personal question for you. thank you
jenn268575@hotmail.com

#166 | 03/22/2008, 12:39 am, EDT | Brian Baker

Dearest Lana, This is your cousin Brian...Just wanted to send you my love and support...Write me sometime. Stay strong, and know in heart that there are many people who love you. Take care of yourself.

#165 | 03/22/2008, 12:30 am, EDT | Auntie Renai in Texas

I think of you every day, how courageous you are. Wish I were there to help you with the little things in your day. My prayers are with you. Write me a note if you can sometime.

#164 | 03/21/2008, 10:12 pm, EDT | Dad/Granddad

Lana and Dave, the "boys" and I have been praying for you the past two weeks. It's good to read in your journal that everyone is well. Prayers were answered! Love to all...

#163 | 03/18/2008, 2:15 pm, EDT | Texas Grandma

Lana, I'm so