Perspective

By Lana, March 6, 2009 9:11 pm

This week has been a tough one for me. Nothing earth-shattering happened, just a lot of stressful stuff. I spent a couple of days really down about how Carmen’s illness is affecting Lauren. Most of the time I focus on the positives- because of Carmen, Lauren is learning to be compassionate, caring, etc. But this week I let myself think about all the things Lauren is missing. Normal stuff like playing at the park with her sister. Or just getting to go to the library on a regular basis.

Today, the girls and I went to Children’s hospital to drop off a stool sample. We had to wait awhile so Lauren was hopping around, talking to the nurses. Suddenly she turned to me and said, “Mom, guess what I just told Carmen!” As usual, I didn’t guess correctly so Lauren said, “I told Carmen that she is my very best friend in the whole wide world.”

My girls both have a way of putting everything in perspective.

Thanks to Laurie for your wise words today. Thanks to all the families with children with Tay Sachs and related diseases who understand everything.

6 Responses to “Perspective”

  1. I am continually amazed and blessed by you and your most precious family.

  2. Betty Short, NY Grandma's Friend says:

    You all shine Jesus so brightly. He does the work and you share the love fully. Blessings…..

  3. Liz Warren says:

    Take care, have a nice day and I’m sending you love!

    http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/liz2008

  4. Texas Grandma says:

    Lauren, You are precious!!

  5. What Lauren said to Carmen made my eyes well up with tears. You are doing a GREAT job raising both of your girls!!

  6. Very sweet. What a blessing both of your girls are.

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